Give me space!
The room had been set up with round tables, and I was sitting with my back to the presenter. Which was fine, until she walked up behind me and put her hands on my shoulders. My friends around the table could all tell immediately that I wasn't happy, but I don't think the trainer ever noticed.
In that way, it was a lot like many dog-human interactions I have observed over the years.
It's not that I hate touching under all circumstances. I love hugs with my family. After years of conditioning, including one intense semester in Costa Rica, I have even learned to enjoy social hugs with friends. And, of course, I love cuddling with my animals, especially when I am upset or have had a hard day.
I don't like strangers to come up behind me and touch my shoulders. I don't like hugs at business meetings.
Many dogs have similar preferences. While there are a few who love all contact...